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This one goes out to the one I love
This one goes out to the one I’ve left behind
Another prop has occupied my time
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Oh you probably won’t remember me, it’s probably ancient history,
I’m one of the chosen few who went ahead and fell for you.
I’m out of vogue, I’m out of touch, I fell too fast, I feel too much.
I thought that you might have some advice to give …
On how to be …
Insensitive.
eto matindi
Kung alam ko lang na may iba ka palang minamahal
Di na sana ako naghintay sa ‘yo nang ganon katagal
Umasa ako,ang buong akala’y akin ang iyong mundo
Buti na lang at aking natuklasan
Ikaw pala ay isang salawahan..
Bakit nilihim mo sa akin ang iyong nakaraan
Naniwala naman sa ‘yo,ako’y nagtiwala
Hindi mo ba nararamdaman ang paghihirap ng puso ko
Noon pa ma’y umiibig na sa ‘yo
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when you fall in love
When You FALL IN LOVE
(Debunking the Myths That Are Driving You Crazy) By: Bo Sanchez
This article isn’t for teenagers only.
Falling in love happens to the young and the not-so-young. (Did you see 42-year-old Tom Cruise jump up and down Oprah’s couch because of Katie?)
I t happens to everyone. Fat, thin, tall, short, intelligent, uneducated, holy, not so holy, dark, white, yellow, green. it doesn’t really matter.
All of us fall in love.
And we get stuck in myths that drive us absolutely crazy.
My goal is to debunk these myths and convince you not to believe in them.
Let’s begin….
MYTH 1: LOVE WILL CONQUER ALL
Let me qualify.
This is such a tricky myth. Because love —– as defined by the Bible —— will conquer all. But love —— as defined by glazed-eyed lovers —– will not.
If you believe in this myth, you might do the following:
You overlook major obstacles in your relationship.
Everyone you know is wondering why you chose that creature from outer space as your boyfriend. Your bestfriends are telling you to get rid of him. Your family is telling you to throw him out of a running vehicle. Aling Rosa of the sari-sari store across the street is telling you to lace his drink with poison.
But you won’t ——— because you’re in love. That’s why there are songs entitled, "you and me against the world".
Your bestbuds comment, ‘but he’s been jobless for the past three years!"
And you say, "He’s free-spirited. He feels boxed in when he’s in the office. ‘(in other words, he’s undisciplined, lazy bum.)
Your officemates say, ‘He flirts with other women constantly!’ and you say, ‘No, he’s just friendly.’ (in other words, he’s a pervert)
Your cousins say, ‘He’s taking drugs, He’s got needle marks all over his arm. And you say, ‘No, he’s into cross stitching.’
You overstay in toxic relationships, believing that your love will change him
The wedding doesn’t transform anyone.
Even if three Popes officiate the wedding.
The person you’ll march with into the church will be the same person you’ll march with out of the church. He doesn’t change one bit.
In fact, the marriage makes the hidden more obvious.
If he was selfish before he got married, he will be even more selfish after the wedding. If he was hypercritical before he got married, he’ll even be more vile and prolific with his criticisms after wedding.
Here’s the truth : You need more than feelings of love to make a relationship work. You need mature character, total commitment and a minimum level of compatibility.
Especially compatibility in the area of values and mission in life. I hear people say, ‘We’re compatible. Our names begin with the same letter J. My name is Julie and his name is Julio. We’re both born in July."
Wow. That’s so deep, I want to cry.
MYTH 2 : WHEN IT"S TRUE LOVE YOU WILL KNOW THE MOMENT YOU MEET THE OTHER PERSON
I’m sure you’ve had this experience before.
You are in a crowded room. You’re surrounded by boring, noisy chatter when, suddenly, this gorgeous guy enters the door.
Your eyes meet.
Instantly, time stands still. The universe grinds to a halt. Except for this attractive man in front of you, everything in your vision becomes a giant blur. The hubbub of the crowd becomes a soft muffle and, from out of nowhere, you here gentle violin music from the background.
One week later, he’s your boyfriend.
A few weeks later, you discover that your boyfriend’s a pathological liar, buried in credit card debt, borrows money from all his girlfriends (you’re his eight in six months).
Your mind says, ‘Dump him’
Your heart says, ‘But it was love at first sight!’
Here are the consequences .
You become so focused on the magical first moment, you become blind to the dark side of the relationship.
Six out of seven days, you’re fighting with your boyfriend.
But you can’t give him up because you met each other in such a magical moment. Your car keys fell and he picked it up, and then your eyes met, you smelled his deodorant, and you dropped your keys again ..How can you not be meant for each other?
You become a love-at-first-sight junkie that you could miss out on the ‘real thing’.
One intelligent woman told me, ‘Bo, there’s this guy who’s courting me. He’s okay. He’s kind, he’s responsible, he has a good job…’
"I could hear a ‘but’ coming ," I said.
"But there are no sparks!" she bit her lip.
"No violin music playing in the background huh"
"None. When I see him, the background music I hear is lululalu-lalulalulalei."
"Listen. You don’t need a magical first moment to meet our potential husband. The important things are mature character, financial responsibility, ability for commitment, compatible mission and values."
I actually met this girl again on her wedding, and before she marched down the aisle, she whispered to me, "Do you hear the violin music, Bo? It’s loud and clear."
It doesn’t have to be love at first sight.
In fact, marriages with the least adjustments are those between friends who’ve known each other for years before they realize that they’re good marriage material.
What is love at first sight?
Many times, it’s lust at first sight. Or infatuation at first sight.
Don’t give it too much weight.
Here’s the truth: it takes a moment to experience infatuation but true love takes a lifetime.
MYTH 3 : IF IT IS TRUE LOVE YOU WILL FEEL THIS WAY FOR EACH OTHER FOREVER
No, you won’t. Here are the consequences for believing this myth :
You panic when the feelings wane, and wonder whether the marriage is over and whether you really loved one another in the first place.
Imagine the night of your honeymoon.
Your new bride is sleeping. The cotton curtains are gently swaying in the cool breeze. You gaze at her lovely face. You study her soft cheeks. Her long eyelashes. Her beautiful nose, her parted red lips.
And all of a sudden, she snores.
"Ngggggggooork"
How do you react? Because it’s your honeymoon, you say, ‘How cute.’
Six months down the road, the same scene transpires. Your wife is sleeping. And the same cotton curtains are gently swaying in the cool breeze.
And you hear her snore.
"Ngggggoork."
What do you say?
"Ssssssheeeesh, Honey! You sound like a boat!"
What has happened? The feelings have gone. Let me say this: ‘That’s normal. It happens to everyone. But it doesn’t mean your love is gone so don’t panic!
You can make a decision to love the snoring boat.
You start blaming your partner for the loss of love
This is nutty.
But many people do it: when we don’t feel in love, we think it’s the fault of the other person. And so we fight him.
Again, we fall out of love because we’re human beings.
It’s nobody’s fault.
The moment you fall out of love, the real work begins.
Let me explain.
This is the most important point I’m going to make. (I got this from Scott Peck in his bestseller book, The Road Less traveled)
Falling in love isn’t love
Here’s why. When you fall in love…
a. No decision is required. Falling in love just happens.
b. No effort is required. Falling in love is like.. Well, falling.
c. No hard work is required. Falling in love is being bitten by the love bug.
On the other hand, true love requires all three : Decision, effort and lots of hard work. In the Bible, love is a command. You make it happen.
Sure true love can only happen after you’ve fallen out of love.
When you begin choosing to love, even if you don’t feel like doing it —- that’s true love. And that’s the foundation of a lasting marriage.
MYTH 4: YOUR PARTNER WILL FULFILL YOU COMPLETELY
Again because falling in love satisfied you completely —– you want the same satisfaction to last. No it won’t.
Consequence? You might fail to recognize a good relationship because your partner isn’t fulfilling the needs you should be fulfilling yourself.
Here’s the truth: the right partner will fulfill many of your needs but not all of them .
There are just some things your husband can’t give you: you’re self-worth. Your spirituality. Your inner happiness. These are things you have to work on your own.
I’ve met lots of people who think they’re dissatisfied with their marriage. In reality, they’re dissatisfied with themselves.
I’ve met lots of people who think they’re bored with their marriages. And they complain to the high heavens how boring their husband or wife is —- when in truth, they’re really bored with life.
Meet your own needs. Find your happiness in God. Find your niche, your calling, your destiny. And then share your joy with your spouse.
MYTH 5 : IF IT’S TRUE LOVE YOU WON’T BE ATTRACTED TO ANYONE ELSE
If you believe in this myth, you panic when you get attracted to someone else, questioning the authenticity of your love for your spouse.
One man told me, ‘Bo, I love my wife. Or I thought I did. But then I met this woman at work. She has nice make-up. She smells nice. She wears a pencil-cut skirt. When I go home, my wife is wearing a drab rag. Her hair is undone. She smells of vinegar. Gosh I am attracted to this girl at work."
Being attracted to someone is normal —– even if you have a happy marriage. But being attracted doesn’t mean falling into adultery.
Every time you think of the other woman, discipline your heart and say, ‘Home, boy, Home!’ and escort your heart back to your wife. Because if you feed your attraction with fantasies and constantly think about the other woman, it grows. But if you starve your attraction, it dies a natural death.
lost love
hay, ang pagbili pala ng pantalon ay parang paghahanap ng boypren akala mo ok na ang fit, but when u tried it, t’was next to impossible then you look for another one, with additional "characterstics" as you tried to look for something that could fit you better, nadadagdagan ang qualities na hinahanap mo makailang beses kang pumili, sukat, pili, sukat hanggat mahanap mo ang tama ang sukat, swak ba sa sukat mo, sa standards mo, yung tipong ito na yung mamahalin mo at magiging favorite mong pantalon hanggat kumupas, until forever
yan ang lang naman ang narealize ko ng naghahanap ako ng mabibili na pantalon kahapon pagkagaling sa los baños
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galing ako ng lb, at napurnada na naman ang motive ko hehehe wala ba naman ang presence kaya lang may nasaktan na naman yata akong puso kase nakita nya kaming magkausap habang naglalakad pauwi galing (di ko sasabihin, magkakarun ng clue hehe)
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nakita ko reaction mo ng napatingin ka sa aming dalawa obvious ka day, mahal mo pa rin talaga sya dont worry friend at kapatid lang turing ko sa kanya that’s all
eh ano ngayon part 2
ano ba, bat di napost?!!!! grrrr!!!
gusto ko lang magkwento ah, ayan tuloy nawala momentum, di na to original gRRRRRR
basta, malaya na ako!
hahaha, talagang ganyan ang buhay, dapat ka ng masanay
hirap pala manalangin ng sobrang seryoso, pinakikinggan agad, ask kase ako ng sign kung meant ba talaga kme, ayun after 36 hours may nang yari, nainis ako sa kanya, tas di na kame nagpapansinan
tapos tuloy-tuloy na deadmahan namin
awkward man buti na lang 3x a week lng kame nagkikita
nga pala, bago num ko: 09203541851
hay, di ko lam kung ano reaxn ng mga officemates/batchmates, basta ako marami akong friends, pati vet reps closeness ko na, oh meron ba sila nyan\?
gogogo!
way to go!
kanta naman jan
All at once
I fin'lly took a moment
And I'm realizing that
You're not coming back
And it fin'lly hit me
All at once
All at once
I started counting teardrops
And at least a million fell
My eyes began to swell
And all my dreams were shattered
All at once
Ever since I met you
You're the only love I've known
And I can't forget you
Though I must face it all alone
All at once
I'm drifting on a lonely sea
Wishing you'd come back to me
And that's all that matters now
All at once
I'm drifting on a lonely sea
Holding on to memories
And it hurts me more than you know
So much more than it shows
All at once
All at once
I looked around and found that
You were with another love
In someone else's arms
And all my dreams were shattered
All at once
All at once
The smile that used to greet me
Brightened someone else's day
She took your smile away
And left me with just mem'ries
All at once
Ever since I met you
You're the only love I've known
And I can't forget you
Though I must face it all alone
All at once
I'm drifting on a lonely sea
Wishing you'd come back to me
And that's all that matters now
All at once
I'm drifting on a lonely sea
Holding on to memories
And it hurts me more than you know
So much more than it shows
All at once
All at once
I'm drifting on a lonely sea
Wishing you'd come back to me
And it hurts me more than you know
So much more than it shows
All at once
And that's all that matters now
All at once
I'm drifting on a lonely sea
Wishing you'd come back to me
And it hurts me more than you know
All at oncehehehe funny next songits by gloc9 hehehe
Ipagpatawad Mo
ipagpatawad mo aking kapangahasanang damdamin ko sanay maintindihanalam kong kailan lang tayo nagkatagpongunit parang sayo ayaw ng lumayoipagpatawad mo minahal kita agaddika masisi na ako ay pagtakhandina dapat ako pagtiwalaanalam kong kailan lang tayo nagkatagpo ngunit parang sayo ayaw ng lumayo
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-matagal ko ng gustong sabihin sayo tohaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-kahit na ngayon lamang tayo nagkatagpohaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-lagi kong pinapangarap na ikaw ay sumakayhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-sa aking pedikab akoy maghihintay
RAPng ikaw ay unang beses kong masilayandiko malaman bakit nagkaganitoinutusan lang naman ako ng aking inay na pumunta ng palenket bumili ng pito pitosinigang sa misoang ulam namin sa umaga tanghali hanpunan abutin man ng gabipabalikbalik mang lumakad sa harapan ng inyong tindahan kahit wala akong pera na pangbilinilakasan ang loob at nilapitan kitabaka sakaling pwede kitang maimbitakahit di gaanong maayos ang aking suot ang polo ko na kulubotpagkatapos akoy nagsalitamawalang galang na missteka wag kang mabilislumakad yo pwede ba kitang maihatidgamit aking pedikabna aking pinakintabwag ka ng magbayad sana sa akin ay bumilibako ng magdadala ng payong at ng bag mopaligi kong pupunasan ang mga libag mokahit di ako ang pinapangarap hinahanap pag kaharap ay palaging binibihag moang katulad kong maralitang umiibig at pilit na inaabot ang mga bituingano mang kadaming salitang aking ipunin balutin ilihim sabihin ang tangi kong hilingmakinig ka sana sakin....
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-matagal ko ng gustong sabihin sayo tohaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-kahit na ngayon lamang tayo nagkatagpohaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-lagi kong pinapangarap na ikaw ay sumakayhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-ang aking sidecar akoy maghihintay
RAPhalika na saking pedikab girlsakin mainlove girlipapadama ko sayohabang umaandar aking pedikab girllaging sayo lang girlpagibig kona ganitokahit ano pang iyong gustong gawinkapag nababagalan ay kayang kaya ko ng pabilisinat kahit na ano pang hirap ay diko pansinmga daan na matarik ay aking pipidalinpaligin ikaw ang nilalaman ng aking isipan mapaaraw man oh mapa gabidika dadaaan sa putik kaw lamang nakaukit kahit mapasaisang tabisa pagsikat ng araw inaabangan kanamakita lamang ang iyong mga magandang matapalagi ko dinadalangin kahit di mapa sakin ay lagi kong sinasabi na mahal kitapero ang buhay ay talagang napakapaitdi pwedeng sumabay ang tag ulan sa tag initbakit laging minamaliitdiko pwedeng makamit ang katulad mo pilitin komang dumikitpasensya kana sa wallet ko na manipis sa mumurahing pabango na dimo matiisat kung talagang di pwede sabihin molang sa akin asahang hinding hindi ako maiinisdahil tubig at langis Ipagpatawad Mo
ipagpatawad mo aking kapangahasanang damdamin ko sanay maintindihanalam kong kailan lang tayo nagkatagpongunit parang sayo ayaw ng lumayoipagpatawad mo minahal kita agaddika masisi na ako ay pagtakhandina dapat ako pagtiwalaanalam kong kailan lang tayo nagkatagpo ngunit parang sayo ayaw ng lumayo
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-matagal ko ng gustong sabihin sayo tohaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-kahit na ngayon lamang tayo nagkatagpohaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-lagi kong pinapangarap na ikaw ay sumakayhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-sa aking pedikab akoy maghihintay
RAPng ikaw ay unang beses kong masilayandiko malaman bakit nagkaganitoinutusan lang naman ako ng aking inay na pumunta ng palenket bumili ng pito pitosinigang sa misoang ulam namin sa umaga tanghali hanpunan abutin man ng gabipabalikbalik mang lumakad sa harapan ng inyong tindahan kahit wala akong pera na pangbilinilakasan ang loob at nilapitan kitabaka sakaling pwede kitang maimbitakahit di gaanong maayos ang aking suot ang polo ko na kulubotpagkatapos akoy nagsalitamawalang galang na missteka wag kang mabilislumakad yo pwede ba kitang maihatidgamit aking pedikabna aking pinakintabwag ka ng magbayad sana sa akin ay bumilibako ng magdadala ng payong at ng bag mopaligi kong pupunasan ang mga libag mokahit di ako ang pinapangarap hinahanap pag kaharap ay palaging binibihag moang katulad kong maralitang umiibig at pilit na inaabot ang mga bituingano mang kadaming salitang aking ipunin balutin ilihim sabihin ang tangi kong hilingmakinig ka sana sakin....
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-matagal ko ng gustong sabihin sayo tohaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-kahit na ngayon lamang tayo nagkatagpohaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-lagi kong pinapangarap na ikaw ay sumakayhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminahal kita agad-ang aking sidecar akoy maghihintay
RAPhalika na saking pedikab girlsakin mainlove girlipapadama ko sayohabang umaandar aking pedikab girllaging sayo lang girlpagibig kona ganitokahit ano pang iyong gustong gawinkapag nababagalan ay kayang kaya ko ng pabilisinat kahit na ano pang hirap ay diko pansinmga daan na matarik ay aking pipidalinpaligin ikaw ang nilalaman ng aking isipan mapaaraw man oh mapa gabidika dadaaan sa putik kaw lamang nakaukit kahit mapasaisang tabisa pagsikat ng araw inaabangan kanamakita lamang ang iyong mga magandang matapalagi ko dinadalangin kahit di mapa sakin ay lagi kong sinasabi na mahal kitapero ang buhay ay talagang napakapaitdi pwedeng sumabay ang tag ulan sa tag initbakit laging minamaliitdiko pwedeng makamit ang katulad mo pilitin komang dumikitpasensya kana sa wallet ko na manipis sa mumurahing pabango na dimo matiisat kung talagang di pwede sabihin molang sa akin asahang hinding hindi ako maiinisdahil tubig at langis
i have learned my lessons well
kamusta naman, nakakuha rin ako ng kakampi na di ko sya kamuka..kawawa naman daw ako kung magiging kamukha ko yun… tingnan nga natin…
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ayus ba? di naman addik.. at ano itong nalaman ko, si X pala ang nanligaw kay Y? josme! eh di sana pala, i multiplied may kakapalan ng mukha to nth power to Y! eh di siguro ayos buhay ko ngayon, tutal talent ko naman ang … hmmm … espy, lam mo kaya ka nagkakaroon ng kaaway kase mxado kang vocal sa thoughts and feelings mo.. kelan ka ba matututo (to continue, click: http://lostinlove3.blogspot.com then click blog)
ano pa bah… goodluck, tanggap ko na kapalaran ko pag dating sa… alam ko may mas nakakaalam kung anong dapat mangyari sa buhay ko, SIYA na lang bahala nun…
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